Ink • [BLM] [ACAB] @ink@higgs.boson.blue

have a biker selfie yall. please celebrate tdov by telling me how hot I look

look I know the meme is that the gays can't drive, but I think we should queer car guy culture

hmm. I need a good name. maybe an evil sounding plant

I'm thinking a staff as a spellcasting focus. the staff is coiled, and above the tip floats a bell

she has to have black hair straight as a board

thinking fire genasi but high elf could work, too

making a wizard with morticia addams vibes

I felt consistently awful for the past week and then I drank some pickle juice and had so much energy that I cleaned up the desk in my room that's been a trash heap since I moved in over a year ago.

spironolactone really screws up your electrolyte balance, huh. I keep asking for bicalutamide, but the doc says it's too dangerous. I'm angery. I would gladly trade the ability to drink alcohol for not having to deal with sodium deficiency.

I wonder why I have never met nor heard of a medical professional who is themselves trans in the field of transgender health

morgip krongle

beeblebab babto

so to wrap up: I'm not a lesbian because the lesbian community isn't for people like me, even if I did want to join. but, while the bi and pan communities are dramatically more inclusive of trans gender deviance, and I fit the technical requirements, I don't vibe entirely with bi or pan. maybe I'll come around one day

btw, this also circles back around to how lesbians and gay men don't want to date bi people. but that's a discussion for another time.

though I'm certainly one to talk. I have a cis (albeit gender-non-conforming) partner. but she's pan.

which brings me to: the one exception I see with any regularity is that bi and pan cis folks are willing to date trans people

as I'm out longer I keep seeing more and more reasons why T4T is so prevalent. cis people just refuse to date trans people

I'm not going to say it's *impossible* for cis lesbians to be trans allies or nonbinary allies, but it sure fucking feels that way

secondly, while I have a preference for women (and enbies!) there are some men out there I find attractive (moreover, gender is bullshit in the first place, there's hot people of all genders). this disqualifies me from being a lesbian by most counts. I did feel attracted to the "bi lesbian" identity to signify that I vibe with lesbian culture and history, but it has largely been torn apart by the lesbian community for the implication that a lesbian could date a man.

a good thread by @stella which I largely agree with on why genital preference is bullshit

https://girlcock.club/@stella/105488712260938186

I'm nonbinary and don't think of myself as a woman. Because I'm also AMAB, as a consequence I feel entirely unwelcome in lesbian spaces. I'm not a woman, so by elimination I must be a man. Neither do I intend to get bottom surgery, giving cis lesbians the excuse to refuse to date me or other folks like me (or even pre/non-op binary trans women, for that matter) by hiding behind "genital preference"