nonbinary gender angst 

as a nonbinary trans person the notion of "passing" is foreign to my experience. passing isn't an option for me because my society by and large rejects the idea of more than two genders. there's no choices I could make about my appearance that would perform my gender in the same way that a binary person performs their gender

nonbinary gender angst 

I'm happy for all you binary trans folks out there who are able to pass, but at the same time it puts a bad taste in my mouth. the goal is to become invisible? "normal"?

being trans is a gift, in this asshole's opinion. it's just what cis people think about it that sucks


nonbinary gender angst 

my answer to "do I pass" is neither yes nor no. it's that the concept doesn't apply. the question is wrong.

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